The most transformative lesson I learned this week could be
summarized as
follows:
To be an
effective teacher, I need to be an efficient manager…
To be an
efficient manager, I must be a caring builder…
Building strong connections and healthy relationships with
my students will create a feeling of mutual respect, and generate a safe
learning space with minimum classroom management issues.
Strong
Connection with Students:
One foundation of a caring relationship is to give
constructive feedback and positive praise to students. This week, I gave out “sockeye” to support
the PBS program at Raven Kingdom and I tried to
give specific compliments to students regarding their work and their behaviour as often as possible. While the comments like “good job” or “nice coloring” are
spontaneous and easy and can be given
verbally and frequently, as deserved, it is
far more meaningful for a student to know what they did well, so they can do it
again. I noticed during a guided reading session that my feedback built my students’ self-esteem and
encouraged them
to try harder.
Another crucial element for building good relationships with students and their
families is to embrace a “positive” before dealing with a “negative”. This week,
I had to write an “AIDE” form (Assistance Intervention Discipline Education)
for a student because of disrespectful behaviour, and I am very thankful that I
gave her a “positive” last week. Children will mess up and it is part of growing
up, but it is fundamental to notice when they are successfully responsible,
respectful or relational. I truly want to be a teacher that states something
right about a child before I have to deal with something wrong. Therefore, I
have to be proactive in giving positive feedback and finding as many
opportunities as possible to congratulate students.
Classroom
Management:
I learned that respect in one keystone in classroom
management, and that respect is earned, not owed (we had a TOC this week and
observing the difference in students’ behaviour was definitely a transformative
experience!). My students will not automatically respect me because I am an
adult and a teacher, but they might respect me because they know I care for
them and I have their best interest at heart. Respect is based on relationship and authority on fear,
and I believe that creating an atmosphere of fear is unhealthy and often
unsuccessful in a modern classroom.
Another important aspect of classroom management is the
notion of predictability. I confused many students this week in the “word of the day” routine because I did
not follow my teacher mentor’s step-by-step routine. I asked students to guess
the meaning of a word BEFORE I wrote the word down… Even though it sounds like
a detail, it created anxiety in my students, and it impaired their ability to
focus and learn. This also reinforces the importance of presenting the “shape of the day” to the students and to
discuss unexpected changes with them.
Lastly I understand the importance of planning transitions
wisely in order to optimize movement in the classroom. I got the opportunity to
experience a very successful transition (moving students from their desks
seating to a circle seating with their chairs – I was well prepared and gave
clear instructions and expectations before hand) and a not so successful one
(moving students from listening to me as a group to work in pairs – I thought
that “elbow buddy” was good enough of a plan and I was wrong… it was too much
freedom and it created more chaos than order – next time I will have
pre-decided pairs).
Connection to my values and
beliefs:
This week was not easy, and I faced moments of
discouragement. My philosophy in life is that “everyday is a new day with new
opportunities to get it right…” I feel that it is the best attitude to embrace
when working with children, and it will help me grow as a reflective teacher.

